Why More Couples Are Choosing Legals Only Marriages in Mackay

As a marriage celebrant, I’ve seen a real shift in how couples approach getting married. While the heart of marriage remains the same, the way people choose to honour it is changing. More couples are stepping away from the idea that there’s only one “right” way to get married and instead shaping the experience to suit their lives, values, and timing.

That’s where legals only marriages come in.

For some couples, this option is about simplicity. For others, it’s about flexibility. And for many, it’s a thoughtful choice that still respects the significance of marriage, even without a traditional ceremony.

Why couples choose a legals only marriage

There are many reasons couples choose to complete the legal side of marriage without a ceremony, and none of them make the commitment any less meaningful.

Some couples are having a “ceremony” overseas and need their marriage legally performed in Australia. Others are planning a big celebration later, or have already had one, and just want to make things official on paper.
For some, it’s about timing. Life doesn’t always line up neatly with wedding plans. A legals only marriage allows couples to move forward with things like name changes, or shared paperwork, while planning a celebration when it suits them.

And for others, it’s simply a preference. Not everyone wants to stand in front of a crowd. A quiet, private signing with two witnesses can feel more comfortable and just as intentional.

Marriage in Australia is becoming more flexible

Australian marriage law allows for a wide range of ways to get married, and I see that flexibility being embraced more each year. While marriage is still a legal and significant commitment, the way couples enter into it is no longer one-size-fits-all.

A legals only marriage doesn’t take away from the sanctity of marriage. The promises, the intention, and the commitment are still there. What changes is the structure around it.

Some couples choose a heartfelt ceremony. Others choose something short and relaxed. And some choose to separate the legal side from the celebration altogether. All of these choices are valid, and all are recognised under Australian law.

Understanding the NOIM and legal requirements

Even with a legals only marriage, there are still important legal steps that must be followed.

All couples must complete a Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM). This form must be signed at least one month before your legal marriage date.

For legals only marriages, this means we first meet for a Planning and Paperwork Meeting. At this meeting, we complete and sign your NOIM and I sight your required identification. Once that is done, your legal marriage date can be scheduled, but it must be a minimum of one month after that meeting.

This timeline is set by Australian law and applies to all marriages, regardless of how simple or private they are. I guide couples through this process so everything is done correctly and without stress.

Is a legals only marriage right for you?

This option suits couples who want the legal paperwork completed properly, without a ceremony. It’s not about rushing or cutting corners, it’s about choosing a structure that fits your life.

That said, it’s important to understand that a legals only marriage is not a ceremony. There’s no personalised script or guest involvement. It’s a short, seated signing with you, me, and two witnesses, focused purely on the legal requirements.

Other options if you want something more

If you’d like a little more ceremony, even something short and relaxed, I offer other packages that include structure, wording, and a meaningful moment to mark the occasion. Or I can create a custom package just for you.

You can read more about my Legals Only Marriage Package here.

If you’re unsure which option is right for you, you’re always welcome to get in touch. I’m happy to talk through your plans and help you choose the approach that feels right for you.